A terrific first time visitor on the podcast at the moment as Dotun Olubeko, winner of Bachelorette season 21 now up wherever you hearken to your podcasts and on my YouTube channel. Wanna thank BetUS for connecting Dotun and I for this interview. First time ever talking with him and I’ve them to thank for it. Click on on BetUS to test it out. By no means thought that Dotun and I’d join, however hey, right here we’re. We had lots to go over since his life has been a whirlwind for a superb 12 months now. We speak about Jenn’s finale, focus on the likelihood that maaaaaaaybe he spoiled his personal season (hey, I needed to ask), he has some questions for Actuality Steve he wished to get off his chest, being in a public relationship, does DWTS have an effect on {couples}, and far, way more. Nice time with Dotun at the moment and I hope you all get pleasure from this dialog.
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YOUR DAILY ROUNDUP 9/5 TRANSCRIPT
You might be listening to the Day by day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality Steve podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in. A superb Thursday present for you, regardless that a few of you may be receiving this on Thursday evening or Wednesday evening as a result of as , I’m heading out of city. within the morning and I simply wished to get all of your podcasts up proper now.
So we’re going to speak extra about gen season, the whole lot that went down yesterday, issues that occurred on social media. We’ve obtained lots to cowl in at the moment’s podcast and we’ll get to that momentarily. I do wish to say this, your entire stuff is coming tonight. So every day roundup you’re listening to proper now in about quarter-hour from now, the sports activities every day will likely be up after which about quarter-hour after that, 1230 AM central time is when your episode, your weekly podcast episode quantity 4 Oh seven with Dotton Alabeco is occurring tonight.
It’ll be on my YouTube channel at 1230 AM. Central time ought to be in your podcast feed a bit of bit earlier than that. So you’re getting the whole lot tonight. I simply need to have the ability to get up tomorrow morning, bathe, get in my automobile, go to the airport and never have to fret about stuff. I would retweet among the stuff that I put out tonight and simply say, Hey, for these of you that have been sleeping.
After I posted these items, it’s up after which tomorrow’s every day roundup and sports activities every day are each already loaded and able to go. In the present day was actually most likely one of many busiest days. Not solely did it should be the day after the finale, however it’s additionally a day the place I did three interviews and recorded 5 podcasts.
Like I simply, I procrastinated tomorrow’s a podcast visitor on the every day roundup is Kristen Burtt, who’s an leisure reporter for Dem dancing with the celebs. So we spend about 35 minutes speaking about that. My sports activities every day tomorrow was already pre recorded, however I nonetheless needed to report an open and an in depth.
I recorded with Dotton at the moment. I recorded at the moment’s sports activities every day and I recorded this podcast. So yeah, 5 podcasts, three interviews. Busy, busy day, however I’m clear till Sunday evening once I report Mondays, a every day roundup and a sports activities every day. However I simply didn’t wish to should report something. Ravens and chiefs are tonight.
I’ll be in Vegas and I didn’t wish to have to return to my room after the sport at like, nicely, it’ll be about eight 30, 9 o’clock on a Thursday evening in Vegas, they usually didn’t wish to return to my room and spend an hour there recording two podcasts. So that they’re all set. Loaded, able to go tomorrow. All proper, so let’s get going with some extra bachelorette stuff.
Some issues that got here to me from that I perhaps didn’t get to yesterday. Regarding the finale, nothing new to report with reference to what I heard from the one who messaged me. I’m nonetheless attempting to work out some particulars and discover out, clearly I wish to vet this correctly and wish to be certain that.
However I do not know. If I can, this individual, , somebody contacted me that is aware of one thing about any person else. And I’m like, nicely, I would like to speak to that any person else individual instantly. I imply, I, I’m not saying I’m doubting your story, however I must go straight to the supply right here and the individual that’s presumably concerned.
So I’m simply ready to listen to again from them and see if they’ll put me in contact. Or if that different individual even needs to talk, I. Don’t know, and I can’t drive them to in the event that they don’t wish to some issues that I simply by no means went over within the finale. The present itself. I believed Jen’s brother was glorious. I imply, that man killed it very, , he wasn’t like gung ho, like quite a lot of these households are skeptical, however he was skeptical with a delicate facet about it.
He wasn’t simply coming down on the fellows. He was asking good questions. Crucial factor about James, her brother was, , Whereas we have been watching the episode of what occurred again in Hawaii, the dwell shot of him in his seat just about advised the entire story. The man by no means cracked a smile as soon as.
After which you could have Jesse asking him after we watched each guys meet James and the household. We had Jesse ask him, how are you feeling proper now? He’s like, not too glad proper now. So we sort of knew that at that time he wouldn’t say that if Jen was glad and in a relationship and nonetheless engaged. So we sort of knew what was coming, however.
It was very telling to say the least however James, he knocked it out of the park on that episode for positive. You understand, the extra I give it some thought, the extra bothered I’m by them exhibiting the proposal. And sure, I’m very nicely conscious that Jen stated in a number of interviews yesterday that she, she knew it was coming.
She knew they have been going to indicate the proposal. She knew it was going to be an emotional evening for her they usually knew, and she or he stated, I used to be not stunned in any respect. They didn’t shock me and throw that on me. She goes, I knew it was coming, which is ok, however that doesn’t make it proper. It doesn’t imply, Hey, we gave her a heads up.
She knew we have been going to indicate it. I don’t assume that’s the query that ought to be requested. The query that ought to be requested is why did you need to present it? Whether or not they confirmed it in, and a few persons are saying, nicely, I feel they, I didn’t have an issue exhibiting them exhibiting it. They need to have confirmed it within the regular sequence.
And after we, so we often see proposals occur. I’m like, I don’t assume it issues, ? And, and the largest drawback I’ve with it’s the truth that I stated it yesterday, however I wish to repeat this once more. That is the difficulty. We noticed her dump Marcus. Then the subsequent scene is Devin going to satisfy Neil Lane to take a look at rings.
After which proper after that scene, Jesse Palmer, we get again to a dwell shot of Jesse Palmer on the sofa saying, Hey, usually at the moment, very glad second, we’d present you the proposal, however we’re not going to try this as a result of what’s occurred since that day. After which they’ve two segments of Jen sitting on the sofa crying.
And you then present it prefer it simply doesn’t make any sense after they particularly advised us we’re not going to indicate it. He didn’t say at that time, we’re not going to indicate it now. We wish to speak about it and we’ll present it later. I simply, it made no sense. And this present can say no matter they need. No one has come out but from the present and defended them exhibiting the proposal.
I doubt anyone will. Jesse’s going to be requested about it in some unspecified time in the future, I’d assume, however my level is nothing that they are saying, and I do know their reply goes to be like, we wished to indicate Jen that she was an empowering lady at that and the way robust she was on that day. I’m sorry. That’s not ok.
She didn’t should see that. You probably did it to get a viral TV second and to get folks speaking. You probably did it for tv functions, not since you have been searching for Jen’s emotions. The woman was already a large number for 2 straight segments, and you then made her watch that once more. And I do know she stated, look, I wished Devin to look at it, however Devin wished no a part of it both.
Sat there along with his head down, and Jen sat there crying. Once more. Which I imply, how may you not watching that again together with your ex fiance sitting proper subsequent to you? It was simply so not elegant. It was humiliating. It was embarrassing and it by no means ought to have been proven interval. Finish of story. There’s nothing they’ll say to persuade me.
Oh, I see their facet. I simply don’t. I don’t see it. It was a tv stunt finished to get folks speaking, which clearly it labored. Persons are speaking about it at the moment. Everyone’s speaking about it at the moment. I can’t imagine they made her sit by means of that proposal that they obtained what they wished. It doesn’t make it proper.
Devin on the sofa saying, , yeah, regretfully, I used to be late on letting you know the way I felt. That’s his finest clarification. Actually? That’s all you would provide you with? You’ve had three and a half months since Might sixteenth to formulate one thing higher than that. And all he may say was, Regretfully, I used to be late on letting you know the way I felt.
Once more, folks on this franchise are allowed to get off the present. I’m speaking about ultimate {couples}. You’re allowed to get off the present, have your glad couple visits, begin attending to know one another extra and notice, Oh shit, perhaps this isn’t gonna work out between us. That’s completely acceptable. In truth, it’s the norm on the present.
Trigger far more {couples} break up than truly keep collectively. Once more, my largest challenge with Devin will not be that he couldn’t be appropriate with Jen or that Jen couldn’t be appropriate with him, or they wouldn’t have made it longterm. It’s the truth that the love bombing occurred for the final 4 episodes. And as Jen stated, which is confirmed by Dotton, once you hear on this interview at the moment, Dotton tells me, I noticed Jen proper after filming ended at CMA Fest and she or he stated then one thing’s sort of off.
He stated she didn’t spoil something for me, however she’s like one thing’s sort of off. One thing’s bizarre. That was CMA Fest. That was like perhaps per week after they obtained again from filming, finish of Might. In order that’s what I imply. What Jen stated was confirmed by Dotton on Podcast quantity 407 developing in about an hour from now, half hour from now, no matter, 1230 a.
m. He’s Central Normal Time. It was confirmed by him. She wasn’t mendacity on the stage when she stated she felt like he was distant from the time they left Hawaii and one foot out the door. Like, I imply, I, I stated it on Dave’s dwell Monday evening after the present. And I’ll say it once more. If he would have simply went for a month or two months and notice, man, it’s not working between us and simply had, they usually broke up earlier than the present.
Yeah, it could have sucked. It’s occurred earlier than although, on the present the place they couldn’t even make it. The ultimate couple couldn’t make it to after the ultimate rose, however. We simply not getting a solution to, Hey, I couldn’t dwell as much as your expectations, Jen. Okay. Why couldn’t you reside as much as the expectations? Inform us, inform us the way you felt the place you simply, you get off the, you get off the Island in Hawaii and also you’re identical to, I’m not drawn to her.
I don’t discover her engaging in any respect. Was it, she snores throughout her, when she sleeps? I don’t know. I’m simply saying, give us a purpose. You gave us nothing and that’s why it’s very onerous to imagine something he says, particularly when he says, regretfully, I’m late on letting , I ought to’ve let . I couldn’t dwell as much as your expectations and also you weren’t the individual you need to have been round me.
I identical to, I’m sorry. He’s like placing it again on her to nearly take warmth off himself. Like, , the virtually. Nearly the, it’s not, it’s not you, it’s me. So I completely perceive the place he simply didn’t have the balls to return out and inform her why he wasn’t, why he wasn’t feeling it together with her anymore. And I’m sorry once I’ve heard all of the issues that I’ve heard for the final 4 months.
After which I discover out that this man principally checked out from the second he left Hawaii.
It’s very simple to imagine he conned her and he was by no means going to be severe about this relationship. He went on the present to win a recreation present in his thoughts. And , I don’t understand how recreation of roses is speaking about this, however wouldn’t he technically be like the best recreation participant on this present’s historical past as a result of he gained the ring or no matter, and, after which bolted, he did the whole lot he wanted to do to win.
Like if it’s all about profitable, Devin may be one of many biggest gamers ever. But when it’s all about the way you deal with folks, he’s most likely one of many worst. In order that’s what I imply. It’s simply, he’s not a superb man. Sorry. There’s no different method round it. And the way in which he handled her, the way in which he acted on stage, so aloof, didn’t appear to take accountability for something.
Simply got here throughout as terrible.
