Podcast #421 – Interview with Olivia Caridi – Actuality Steve

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(SPOILERS) I start by going over the confusion I’ve over the Gerry/Theresa story from yesterday, a Survivor query or two, and previewing Podcast #421. Then Olivia joins me (10:05) to speak about what she’s been as much as since leaving her “Mouthing Off” podcast, her Pickleball obsession, villains on the present, and we finish with a “Speedy 10.”

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(SPOILER) Your Each day Roundup covers a protracted awaited return for Podcast #421 visitor, the Gerry/Theresa breakup takes one other bizarre flip, Survivor finale Half 1 has me a bit confused, and a Reader E mail about Vegas.
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DAILY ROUNDUP 12/12 TRANSCRIPT

You’re listening to the Each day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality C podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in on this Thursday. Actually, actually good present for you right this moment. We’re going to let you know what’s developing in podcast quantity 421 in a pair hours. We’re additionally going to debate what occurred yesterday.

With Gary Turner and Teresa Nist, each doing interviews with folks, journal, folks. com. And I’m simply as confused as the subsequent particular person. I don’t perceive what’s occurring right here and what occurred as a result of it looks as if the proper hand’s not speaking to the left with these two and we’ll dissect it and go over what they stated.

And perhaps you may clarify it to me higher. And I’m simply lacking one thing right here. We’re additionally going to speak about survivor. I’ve obtained questions on final evening’s episode. We’re going to speak in regards to the problem. I’ve a reader electronic mail name a reader electronic mail to learn, and perhaps we’ll get to this story I’ve relating to Michael Jackson, which is simply completely weird.

We’ll get to all that momentarily. All proper. Simply to say proper off the bat, podcast quantity 4 21, developing at 9 15 AM Japanese time on my YouTube channel at actuality, Steve 24. It’s with Olivia Carini. It’s been some time since we talked to her years. Truly, I feel it was pre COVID. However I might be improper.

I do not know the final time Olivia was on the podcast, however I really feel like mate COVID was just like the earliest it might have been. So a minimum of 4 years. Nice discuss with Olivia right this moment, developing at 9 15 AM Japanese time. Go to my YouTube channel, prefer it, subscribe, go away a remark, do no matter that you must do.

podcast feed round that point as properly. So I wish to soar proper into what occurred yesterday. Okay. Folks. com did an unique with Gary Turner, our first golden bachelor. And the headline stated, Gary Turner identified with most cancers weeks earlier than Teresa Nist break up. And he principally stated it had an enormous bearing on my resolution.

And he stated, As Teresa and I have been making an attempt very arduous to search out our way of life, and the place we have been going to dwell, and the way we have been going to make our life work, I used to be sadly identified with most cancers. He obtained a shoulder damage throughout pickleball, And the orthopedic surgeon stated, there’s not a lot we will do to your shoulder, however there are some uncommon blood markers right here.

So an orthopedic surgeon went to the household physician, household physician referred me to an oncologist. And now I’m working with a hematology oncology group in Fort Wayne, Indiana. He was identified with a gradual rising bone marrow most cancers with a very lengthy identify referred to as Waldenstrom’s macroglobulinemia.

I most likely pronounced that improper, however the illness modifications white blood cells into most cancers cells and builds up within the bone marrow. He stated, sadly, there’s no treatment for it. In order that weighs closely in each resolution I make. It was like 10 tons of concrete have been dropped on me and I used to be in a little bit of denial for some time.

I didn’t wish to admit it. After which. He principally went on to say it’s arduous for me. He instructed Teresa about it. Dialog was transient, and I feel she was a bit bit awestruck by the information, so comprehensible. I wished my life to proceed on as regular as attainable. And that led me to believing that as a traditional as attainable, extra males.

Extra meant spending time with my household, my two daughters, my two sons in legal guidelines, my granddaughters, and the significance of discovering the best way with Teresa was nonetheless there, however it grew to become much less of a precedence. And he stated judgments made about his separation have been unfair to them. Okay, first off, I simply wish to say this.

I perceive that Gary Turner had no obligation. To open up a couple of most cancers analysis again in February when he discovered, a minimum of to us publicly. Clearly he instructed Teresa, which clearly he, you’ll in that state of affairs. However I, I, it’s very arduous to sit down right here and have him say, , this was unfair. That everybody made judgments as a result of we broke up in March.

Nicely, Gary, we didn’t know this. Clearly if we knew you had most cancers, no person. Completely. Would have stated that. And in case your response is, properly, you by no means know what persons are going via, so don’t decide, I’m sorry, then no person’s allowed to have an opinion about something in any stroll of life as a result of anyone can simply say, you don’t know what they’re going via.

So Gary, once you get divorced three months after a marriage and this isn’t introduced up, which you didn’t have any obligation to inform us. You’ll be able to’t then simply say it was unfair that folks have been commenting about your breakup, As a result of that’s simply that doesn’t make any sense. In fact persons are going to remark a couple of breakup Three months after you bought married, but when we knew a couple of most cancers analysis, I assure No one would have stated a phrase about like, oh one other failed bachelor Relationship, , so you may it can save you me with that.

So You I completely perceive now, Gary saying, look, I had a most cancers analysis in February that performed a significant function in my breakup with Teresa, 100% behind Gary on that as properly. That makes whole sense. You could have most cancers primarily based on what he stated right here. And that is actually one thing that I wish to speak about.

He stated that this most cancers that he acquired, which obtained into his bone marrow was incurable. So after I was studying this story, when it first got here out from Gary. And actually, perhaps I’m simply dumb, please, please inform me. However when he says I’ve most cancers and it’s incurable to me, which means he’s going to die of most cancers.

He’s going to die from this as a result of he’s obtained most cancers and so they can’t treatment it. Proper. I imply, I, that will sound dumb, however after I learn the story, I felt like he doesn’t have for much longer to dwell. And perhaps that’s the place I made my mistake in assuming that’s what he meant by coming ahead with this. So it was actually complicated to me, this story of, okay, however the place is he at well being smart?

Or is it one thing the place he was like, look, I don’t know the place it’s going to take me. I might presumably die from this in a 12 months or two. So I wish to spend all time with household and associates and I simply can’t put Teresa via this. , he did say, I’m going to pack as a lot enjoyable as I presumably can into my life and luxuriate in each second.

And after I’m gone, I’m gone, however I’m not going to have any regrets. However there was nothing within the story that stated how a lot time he was given with this. So I used to be like, I’m simply confused. Is, does he have some form of, is that this terminal? Does he have six months? Does he have a 12 months? Does he have two years? Or is it one thing that he simply doesn’t know?

As a result of he didn’t even say that within the story. Like, look, I don’t know. Simply stated, I’m going to dwell my life. And after I go, I’m going, I used to be like, okay, however I did perceive. Okay. Completely is sensible. You discovered you had most cancers in February. You had simply married this lady. It is sensible that you just wish to prioritize household and associates.

Bought it. Nicely then Teresa actually quarter-hour later, folks journal clearly went to her and stated, Hey, Gary got here out together with his story about most cancers. , what are your ideas on this? Clearly, I’m positive he instructed you about it. And that is the place issues obtained complicated much more to me. And she stated someday in March is when he instructed her, she stated it was devastating information.

I used to be extraordinarily upset. After which regardless of his analysis, Teresa stated, he instructed me although, that it was the kind of most cancers that he would probably outlive.

And I used to be like, okay, properly, so this isn’t terminal most cancers. That is one thing that he’s simply going to must take care of most likely get therapy on it, take medication for it, no matter. After which she went on to say. She instructed those who his analysis, quote, wasn’t an element within the ending of our relationship, a minimum of not for me.

If that was one thing on his half, perhaps, I don’t know. However no, that didn’t issue into ending the connection. A part of it was the gap, however that wasn’t the one half. That’s actually all I’ll say. And that’s most likely the second or third time Teresa has gotten to a degree the place she’s like, look, I’m not speaking in regards to the breakup anymore, however there’s something there that I’m simply not going to get into.

So she says it had nothing to do with the well being challenge, a minimum of on her finish. And she or he says, It was the gap, however that wasn’t the one half. And that’s all I’ll say. So it actually looks as if these two had plenty of communication points as a result of it does seem to be the proper hand. Isn’t speaking to the left hand right here, as a result of once you learn each of these tales yesterday, it virtually felt like two totally different folks saying two totally different.

Like I’m confused on what the hell occurred now. I’m much more confused than I used to be earlier than this story got here out that Gary had most cancers as a result of, huh, I, I learn his story on when it first got here out on folks. And I believed, okay, he doesn’t have for much longer to dwell. However then Teresa says, yeah, he instructed me. And he stated, and he stated he was going to survive it now.

Possibly that’s him simply being optimistic or I, once more, I stated he had no obligation to inform the general public a couple of most cancers analysis. I completely perceive that. However. The entire thing about, , folks judged us and, , you didn’t, you don’t know what’s occurring in any individual’s life. So don’t make any remark, come on.

Then no person’s allowed to say something about anyone. And that’s simply, that doesn’t make any sense. Actually. Should you instructed us, if there was a narrative on the market in March, when the breakup occurred or April, every time it was that you just had been identified with most cancers, no person would have criticized the breakup, however two folks break up in Persons are going to touch upon it.

And so that you can say, after the very fact, after you inform us you had most cancers in December, once you had it since February, I, yeah, persons are, what I’m saying? It’s like, okay, you may’t, you may’t actually try this. So I’m, I’m simply as confused now as I used to be beforehand. I don’t know his state of affairs. I hope it’s one thing that he can dwell with for some time.

And I hope that this isn’t some form of clock that’s ticking down for him and one of these most cancers He’s solely obtained 18 months 24 months 36 months I don’t know in response to Teresa when he instructed her he made it seem to be that is one thing he’s going to survive So I assume I assume time will inform however there’s clearly Yet one more issue that led to their breakup that Teresa simply received’t go into this podcast dropped at you by mint cellular You me in the case of Mint Cellular.

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