You might be listening to the Every day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality Steve Podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in on this Monday. Boy, has Caitlin Bristow stepped in it. She is taking some main, main warmth for what she stated on the Betches podcast. Jared Freed, one of many co hosts.
We’re going to get into that. I’ll play you the clip and provide you with my ideas on it. We’re additionally going to speak concerning the Instagram followings for the ultimate 4 males of Gen season, which is at an all time low. After which discuss a bit of bit about Huge Brother from final night time and what’s been happening this week.
We’ll get to all that momentarily. So when you haven’t heard it, Caitlyn Bristow went on the Betches podcast with Jared Freed and Jordana Abraham. It’s a part of the Betches podcast community. The precise podcast itself is known as You Up with Jared Freed and Jordana Abraham. And Caitlyn went on it and they have been speaking about, Nicely, I’m going to play you the clip as a result of there’s a, there’s loads of issues that now we have to get to with this.
So let me play you the clip right here after which we’ll talk about.
On a date with any individual from the franchise and I attain out to the woman that he was once with as a result of once more, I needed to see,
are you pals along with his ex? Not likely.
No, not in, we hadn’t talked in months and like, No, we’re not.
So that you have been like, okay, we most likely
seem like pals on the skin.
Certain. However we’re not. So that you’re about how, how did the textual content go? Stated I stated, Hey, so and so dmd me.
Your ex DMed me. Yeah. Okay.
And we’ve been chatting, needed to see, I stated, I do know you’re actually glad in a relationship. So I really, really, so I stated, I don’t really know if this might hassle you or not. I don’t know if it like.
Was sufficient to offer a cellphone name prefer it clearly simply appeared like a textual content factor to me and Sure, she referred to as and was very upset
and stated don’t go close to this man.
No, she stated I at all times knew you have been a foul individual No And also you’ve confirmed it. So your true colours are displaying. After which I hung up and I went, No, I simply need to ship her an image of me sucking his dick.
Laughing
She’s undoubtedly not as glad as you thought she was. I used to be like, it’s best to have seen my face on the decision. I used to be like, Oh my God. She referred to as you to inform you that? Yeah. And she or he, and I used to be identical to, I’m so sorry. Like I, I really didn’t assume you have been going to reply. I’m really actually sorry. I went on a date with somebody.
Okay. So there’s just a few issues there to debate. Primary, she’s clearly speaking about relationship Zach. Zach was the one which hit her up in her DMs and she or he’s speaking about Tayshia. That is, I feel the primary concern, which is Caitlin has made it very clear that she’s by no means going to speak about whoever she’s relationship and she or he’s by no means going to submit footage with them till actually the marriage.
Now, I don’t consider her when she says that, however I’m simply saying that is what she has stated publicly. So we are able to solely take her at her phrase for what she says publicly. She’s principally saying like, look, I’m not going to do what I did with Sean. I’m not going to do what I did with Jason, anyone. I’m maintaining my personal life off the web.
I, I beneath, and she or he did make it identified that, look, I perceive footage have gotten out. Individuals have seen stuff on the market. I’m not going to ever cover from it. I’m simply not going to overtly submit about it. Okay. That’s high quality. Bye. The issue is by discussing this now on this podcast, the you up podcast, she’s virtually to say, I’m not going to speak about my personal life after which inform a narrative like that may be very contradictory as a result of now persons are going to have questions and persons are going to be like, I assumed you weren’t speaking about your relationship and now you simply not solely advised a narrative about somebody that you just have been seeing within the franchise.
And look, everyone knows who she’s speaking about. I do know she didn’t title names, however we all know she’s speaking about Zach, the man that she is seeing every so often. And she or he’s speaking about how Zach was as soon as engaged to Taysha. Zach hit her up in her DMs and she or he determined to inform Taysha in a textual content that they have been chatting and Taysha referred to as her the following day and stated, reveals me what a horrible individual you’re, regardless of the language that she used, you’re a foul individual.
So. There’s so many issues at play right here However once more, that first one, it’s simply very contradictory of Caitlin to say, I’m not going to speak about my public life, my private life within the public discussion board, after which not even inform this story on her personal podcast. Inform it on any individual else’s like she needed to have identified that this was going to have traction and legs.
The second factor is the story that she advised was so particular and it was graphic as a result of as soon as Tayshia advised her that she wasn’t glad, Caitlin made a joke. And the rationale why I stated she made a joke is as a result of she did remark about this, I consider, on her Fb, off the Vine web page, after the actual fact, when she’s been taking loads of warmth for this, as a result of it’s making the rounds, it’s throughout any, it’s throughout my TikTok feed, it’s throughout Instagram pages, everyone’s overlaying this.
She made a joke about, effectively, geesh, and I’m going to simply repeat what Caitlin stated. Nicely, geesh, after she stated that, I needed to ship her an image of me sucking his dick. I don’t know in what world Caitlyn thought that that might be an acceptable response to say, even when she was joking, which she says she was as a result of this was despatched to me and it was put out on Caitlyn’s Fb group.
She responded to any individual in her off the vine Fb group that stated, It was a joke. Jared is a comic, now we have banter. It was a joke, and naturally I wouldn’t need to do this. I’m laying in mattress, bawling my eyes out as a result of I really feel a lot disgrace watching it again after I was simply making an attempt to make Jared snicker.
Now I really feel just like the world hates me. I used to be actually making an attempt to do the appropriate factor and I added a foul joke in there, as a result of it’s me and I don’t have a rattling filter. The bullying feedback coming in are so terrible now, so I suppose I deserve that. Right here’s the issue. The joke, whereas she was making an attempt to get fun out of Jared, it’s not like I took offense to the joke.
I simply didn’t discover it remotely humorous, and I didn’t even perceive what the purpose of that joke was, and now she’s getting warmth. The distinction is the warmth coming from me is simply, Caitlin, you most likely ought to have saved your mouth shut on this one. I perceive she has no filter. The issue is, what number of instances have we heard Caitlin say, I’ve no filter, and find yourself having to do one thing like this?
It appears to occur frequently to the place Caitlyn, we all know struggles with psychological well being. She struggles with trolls coming at her as a result of individuals bounce down her throat rather a lot. Generally it’s justified, generally it’s a bit of bit exaggerated why trolls go after her. However she seemingly retains doing stuff that provides them fodder to come back after her.
This simply wasn’t a great interview for her. I’m not saying something about Jordana and Jared. I’m saying, This doesn’t make her look good in any respect, as a result of nothing, by telling that story, nothing constructive may have come from that. Caitlyn desires individuals to be form on the web, proper? She tells individuals on a regular basis, like, hey, let’s simply be good.
As a result of she struggles with it when she will get hate from web trolls. She struggles with it. We all know this. But right here she is on a podcast making a joke that’s on the expense of Tayshia. Saying, yeah, simply so, I ought to have simply stated, even when she was joking and she or he wasn’t critical. The purpose being the response sounded petty and it sounded very imply woman, which is precisely what Caitlin portrays to different folks that she doesn’t need.
She desires individuals to be form, she desires individuals to unfold positivity, after which she goes on a podcast and tells that story. There’s the contradiction. And I do know that pump, I do know that folks which are defending Kate and look, I’m not group, I’m not group Jason over group Kaitlin. I like Kaitlin. I’ve received nothing towards Kaitlin.
I don’t have any type of relationship together with her, however I don’t have a difficulty with Kaitlin. And I’m not selecting a facet right here. I’m simply laying out the info and giving my opinion of this story as a result of it’s a serious story in Bachelor Nation proper now. It’s all anyone’s speaking about. Each content material creator is speaking about it and persons are having differing opinions.
Dave has a special opinion than me. She’s all batch is of the same opinion as me. We’re sort of on the identical facet of this and I’m identical to, look, it doesn’t imply that I don’t like Dave or something like this. Look, we’re allowed to have totally different opinions. My level being is I simply didn’t assume general Caitlin wanted to inform this story.
She may have simply, she wasn’t, it’s not like Taysha stated one thing and Caitlin felt the necessity to reply. It’s not like Taysha dissed her publicly and Caitlin’s like, Oh, right here’s, right here’s a means I can get again at her. I’m going to inform this story. Taysha doesn’t discuss something. We haven’t heard Taysha reference Caitlin in most likely two years.
Now, what Caitlin stated in that podcast would possibly’ve been the primary time that she publicly addressed the truth that her and Taysha have been by no means shut pals. Individuals thought they have been as a result of they co hosted The Bachelorette with Katie Thurston they usually co hosted The Bachelorette with Michelle Younger and everyone thought as a result of they have been co hosts and they’re not.
Been listening to that for years. They’ve by no means been shut pals and Caitlin admitted it in that podcast. In order that’s factually right. They have been by no means shut pals, but it surely’s not like Caitlin advised the story in retaliation to one thing Taysha stated. Taysha has been in a relationship with that Luke man for over a yr now.
Doesn’t even submit about him. Doesn’t discuss concerning the franchise anymore. She’s principally eliminated herself from every thing. Bachelor nation. So why would Caitlin? Over a yr later, inform this story. That’s what I don’t perceive. It doesn’t make any sense. It doesn’t come throughout as constructive. It comes throughout as imply woman.
It comes throughout as petty and that’s it. It’s simply do higher. Don’t inform the story. So I don’t hate Caitlin. And for those who, you realize, need to cancel Caitlin, this isn’t cancelable offense, Caitlin. This isn’t the primary time. And it most likely gained’t be the final time. Caitlin places her foot in her mouth as a result of she doesn’t have a filter.
And that’s all this was. Now, when you’re bored with Caitlin placing in her foot within the mouth. After which getting unhappy and realizing that persons are coming down on her for one thing, then I counsel the very best factor to do, and that is everyone’s personal selection is simply to unfollow, however don’t ship her a message. Don’t write a caption on her Instagram web page, telling her how a lot, how terrible you assume she was.
She made a foul joke on a podcast. That’s the best way I have a look at it. It’s a foul joke on a podcast. She by no means ought to have made. And simply be higher subsequent time. That’s all I can ask of her. I don’t know her. If I used to be a buddy of hers and I may discuss to her, that’s precisely what I’d inform her and be like, Caitlin, you shouldn’t have stated that it seems to be actually unhealthy.
So I feel the entire thing there’s a, there’s simply the joke itself fell flat. And the joke ended up being on the expense of any individual else, since you and I each know if Kat Stickler, Jason Tardik’s new girlfriend advised a joke on a podcast about. I used to be considering of sending Caitlyn an image of me sucking Jason’s dick.
You assume Caitlyn would have dealt with that effectively? That’s what I’m saying. Even when Kat stated, Oh, I used to be simply joking. I used to be simply enjoying, I used to be simply making a joke. As a result of she was his ex, and That’s what Caitlyn is principally saying right here. I made a, I made a foul joke. She even stated that in that Fb submit that I learn you.
She’s admitting I made a foul joke. And a few persons are taking it to the extent of, Oh my God, I hate her. I can’t stand her. And it’s like, look, I, did I just like the joke? No. Did I feel it made her make her look unhealthy? Sure. Did I feel it made her look petty? Sure. Did I feel it make her look imply woman? Sure. Nevertheless it doesn’t imply I’m by no means going to go with Caitlin for one thing she does sooner or later.
And it doesn’t imply I’d by no means discuss to her once more. I imply, that’s, that’s the place individuals get carried away in bachelor nation is their reactions to one thing like this. This, she didn’t do one thing unlawful. She didn’t break the regulation. She stated one thing dumb on a podcast. She shouldn’t have stated, doesn’t imply I’m going to cancel her.
I do know different individuals will, however I’m not, it’s simply for this specific incident. And sure, this has been the primary, this isn’t the primary and it gained’t be the final. She admits I don’t have a filter and generally she places her foot in her mouth. And she or he did on this case on this occasion, she did it once more, however I feel that.
It was, and I feel the worst half was it wasn’t in response to something. She didn’t want to inform this story and sitting right here it. It’s identical to, yeah, man, it’s simply, it doesn’t look good. It actually doesn’t. So sadly she stated it. She wrote that on her Fb submit. I don’t know if she’s going to deal with it on her Instagram.
I don’t know if she’s going to do a video. I don’t know if she’s going to take an image of herself or do a video of herself or submit something about this, as a result of she has stated, like we talked about at first, she has stated, I’m not speaking about my personal life publicly. Nicely, to deal with this story, she virtually has to speak about the truth that she’s relationship Zach, who’s Tasha’s ex boyfriend, and she or he virtually has to make use of names and she or he didn’t within the podcast.
I don’t anticipate her to do it now. So, I don’t know. I don’t even know if she’ll tackle this. However, if something, she desires to publicly say one thing, she ought to say, she ought to say what she wrote on her Fb. If she’s gonna tackle it publicly, simply no matter you wrote in your Fb group, that I learn to you, say it publicly.
Simply say that. I made a foul joke on the expense of any individual who it was uncalled for, they didn’t deserve it. I imply, she’s now put it on the market into the general public. Her and I have been by no means pals. Caitlin and Tayshia have been by no means pals. I’ve heard that for, I’ve heard that for years, however I didn’t know the insides or, you realize, the within to it or why, you realize, I don’t know why they weren’t pals.
Simply because they hosted a present collectively didn’t imply they should be pals. They have been coworkers, however as a result of they have been two girls for the primary time internet hosting the Bachelorette franchise, individuals simply thought they should be BFFs they usually weren’t. They by no means have been. So we are able to sit right here and debate woman code. Did she break woman code or something like that?
I feel the very last thing about that specific dialog on the podcast was Caitlin stated she was principally contacting Taysha to offer her a heads up. Once more, it didn’t sound like a lot of a heads up as a result of she stated she wasn’t anticipating Taysha to react that means, which suggests she went in with an agenda of, effectively, I’m going to do no matter I’m going to do.
I’m simply giving Taysha a heads up. Nicely, then it looks as if issues are sort of backwards. Since you weren’t giving her a heads up, you have been telling her what you have been doing. You weren’t asking for her response. And she or he was virtually answering for the way Tayshia She thought Tayshia ought to have responded when she stated, I didn’t anticipate her to react that means.
Nicely, why not? Simply because Tayshia’s in a brand new relationship You understand, we, we do not know when every thing began with Zach, when every thing began with Caitlin and Zach and, you realize, the timelines of all that stuff. I’m not going to take a seat right here and debate it as a result of I do not know what the true reply is.
I’m simply info right here. But when I’m Tayshia, who needed to sit on a sofa and have Caitlin maintain her hand throughout a Males Inform All episode and announce publicly that her and Zach had damaged up, And Caitlyn has been on podcasts after that, nearer to when that occurred, saying that she felt that Tayshia was very robust for that.
She felt terrible for Tayshia having to go on stage. And Tayshia sat on that stage and advised everyone that she was damaged. She needed to break up with Zach they usually have been now not collectively and she or he was hurting. And Caitlyn was the cohost of that and held her hand throughout all that. After which discover out no matter it was a yr later, two years later that Caitlyn was relationship Zach.
If you happen to’re Tayshia, you need to assume in your head, Hey, after I was telling you all this about my relationship with Zach. Have been you listening? Did you’ve got eyes for him then? Did you’ve got it in your head? You understand, it’s simply, and I’m not saying, I’m not accusing anyone of something trigger I don’t know the timeline, however I’m simply saying if I’m Tayshia, I have a look at it as like, how do I do know that after I was going by way of this with Zach, Tayshia, you realize, Caitlin was being sincere with me.
Possibly she had a bit of flutter in her eye for him again then. That’s all I’m saying. I’m not towards Caitlin relationship Zach. They have been each single individuals. They might date whoever they need. However you additionally should know when you date the ex fiance of any individual within the franchise, yeah, it may not sit effectively with them.
After which to go surfing and go on a podcast and inform that story and say, God, when she received, when she received, when she stated that to me and she or he stated that, you realize, you’re a foul individual. You have been what I at all times thought. I’m going to ship her an image of me sucking Zach’s dick. It’s like, okay, that wasn’t an ideal response.
Simply not good. Nonetheless, not selecting sides right here. I’m not group Jason versus group Caitlin. All I’m saying is unhealthy joke on a podcast. She by no means ought to have stated it. I’m not canceling her. She’s not going to lose her podcast reputation due to this simply means I feel she simply must be extra cautious. I perceive she loves being the woman that doesn’t have a filter, however she has to grasp generally that filter goes to attract a robust response out of the viewers.
Ought to it contain demise threats? No. Ought to it contain calling her names? No. If you happen to don’t like how the best way Caitlin conducts her enterprise and with among the issues she says, and among the issues which are off the cuff and no filter, then I’d counsel simply don’t comply with her, however don’t write her a message on her captions and don’t DM her.
That’s all. I’m not going to DM her. I’m not going to message her. I’m not going to ship her an electronic mail. I’m not going to write down something on her web page. I’m nonetheless going to comply with her. It’s simply no matter we transfer on. However Caitlin, simply She desires to say one thing publicly. I’d assume she ought to simply say what she wrote on that Fb submit.
That’s all.
